There are a lot of reasons why people chose to walk away from certain relationships and ending it is never simple or easy. Sometimes people grow out of feelings, apart, have different sets of values, interests, have a feeling of uncertainty in a relationship, or they do not settle on any common ground. It is very common that couples often face a shift in emotions, and do not enjoy being together. Arguments between couples become a routine and overpowers their feelings and happy moments shared together, or sometimes get bored of the same things happening in repetitions.
A lot of times entering someone new changes everything between two people, and often helps them in realising that they don’t want anything serious or do not belong together. Breakups whether it is small or big leaves a large impact on the life of the people, it is part of their life which they do experience at least once in life. Sometimes choosing to end a relationship, after being in so much love is not a failure of your relationship but it is about amicably respecting each other's choices, values, and mindset.
Some relations are not meant to last forever. It becomes important to walk away and it is the best choice one can decide for themselves. Here are some clear red flag signs that will help you to make a choice:
Fights without any resolution: In a relationship disagreements are quite normal, but when these banters become regular and exhausting, and none of you is willing to make peace, it is a big red flag sign for you.
Abusive behaviour: Any type of abuse be it emotional, physical, or metal is not tolerable. Love is where there is respect and reliability. So staying in a relationship that is abusive is not at all worth staying and will harm your well-being.
No trust: Being repeatedly dishonest and cheating affects the foundation of any relationship. If there is no trust then sorry to say there is no relationship and staying together is near to impossible
Compatibility: It is when you both are poles apart and your vision, values, and goals makes you different. And forcing such a relationship is just hurting yourself more, when both have an idea that there is no future for this relationship.
No spark: A lot of times affection, warmth, and intimacy fades in a relationship. Putting in efforts to revive this kind of bond feels forced.
Stuck in the past: A relationship has no scope to grow when one partner is stuck in old traumas or hasn't got closure and keeps making comparisons.
Feeling drained: A healthy and a good relationship brings in joy and everything gets balanced automatically with a flow. If it is bringing anxiety, stress, and is gaslighting you, it is time for you to rethink.
To be honest, these feeling are quite natural, but it often shapes your imagination which is very far from reality and keep you in delusion. Recognising this can help you to keep check on your emotions before you get carried away with it.
We know walking away is not easy, but sometimes it becomes extremely important for you to be selfish at least once, think for yourself, and secure your future from a toxic relationship
Sometimes choosing yourself and honouring yourself becomes essential and it is what you truly need. So, walking away from a relationship is not giving up. It becomes extremely painful, hurtful and difficult to end a relationship, when there is still care and respect for each other, but breaking the connection is the only option you are left with, as staying together does not feel right. Leaving someone you love is one of the hardest conchs one will ever make in their life.
When one of the partners confesses for breaking up, the other becomes more vigilant about their actions and there is a change in the behaviour that you once wished for. But by then, the time has already passed to stay, it is late, the damage has been made. Years pass in just a hope everything will fall into place and what has been broken will heal, but what is broken once is difficult to fix.
Choosing whether to stay or leave all depends upon how you weigh out the options and situations, whether the relationship really has a future and will sustain or work upon it together. Communicate with each other, be very open about your feelings and if things still do not align, it is a sign to part ways respectfully without holding any grudges.
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