Language Delay In Toddlers: Early Signs Every Parent Should Know

Baby-Toddler / August 18, 2025

Language delay in toddlers often becomes worrying situation for parents, in such situation it is important for parents to keep calm and remember children learn and grow according to their own pace and time. Some might start talk talking early, while others might take longer to find their words. Babies have different ways to communicate in the starting, like crying, body gestures, smiling and through different reactions, later they form speech. These early signs play an important role in helping your child learn to talk.

For speech development, hearing plays an important role. It is important to get an audiogram done, if a child is not responding to sounds and there is no progression in their language skills. Having a knowledge about what language skill and speech to expect at each age can help parents to know the reason behind the delay and take steps to support children to communicate better.

Language Delay: Early Red Flags Parents Should Look Out For

Spotting the signs of language delay in a toddler early can make a big difference. There are different ways in which it get shown up. Though a child develops at their own pace, there are some key milestones most of them reach around the same ages. Here are some common signs parents need to watch for:

By 18 months
  • Does not use simple gestures like waving or pointing
  • Says less than 20 words
  • Don’t follow basic command like “come here”
By 2 years
  • Speak less than 50 words
  • Not able to join in two words together to form a short sentence
  • Low interest in interacting and playing with people
By 3 years
  • Child has difficulty in forming short sentences
  • Have unclear speech that close ones also struggles to understand
  • No proper vocabulary compared to other kids of the same age
By 4 years
  • Have trouble in speaking long form of sentences (4 or more)
  • Strangers not able to follow
  • Have behavioural problems due to frustration of not being able to communicate

If a child is developing in other ways where he or she is able to understand language and use different gestures to communicate, then the delay can be a temporary cause. Delay can also be connected to hearing loss, developmental disorders, or autism. If your child is showing limited progress and missing service milestones, it is best for parents to consult a doctor and get it checked.

Parents' instincts are strong, so one should trust it and notice the changes. Supporting your child at an early stage through speech therapy or home activities, can be helpful for your child to thrive.

When to Seek Professional Help for Language Delays in Toddlers

If your child shows up the signs of language delay, getting help early can cure the problem with not much difficulty:

  1. Consult a paediatrician: They will check the development and growth of your child, and guide you with the right specialist.
  2. Speech-language pathologist: They work on language and speech, helping with improvement in talking and understanding.
  3. Audiology: Audiogram test to check whether it is the problem affecting the speech of the child.
  4. Paediatric neurologists and developmental specialists: They look after underlying conditions and reasons behind the delays.
  5. Assessment process: Includes questions for parents, observation of your child, audiogram, and evaluation of language.
  6. Early help services: If your child’s age is less than 3, early intervention programs can offer therapy and support at home or in centres.
Questions to ask during an evaluation:
  • What type of delay does my child have?
  • How often should they have therapy?
  • Can I do activities at home to help?
  • When will we review progress?

Following these actions give your child a good chance to catch up and build strong communication skills.

Emotional Support for Parents
  • Helping your child with language and speech delay can be a challenging task. And during this process parents need to keep calm and stay patient. This process takes time and for making it effective, staying positive is important.
  • Parents might feel that the progress is very slow, but every small improvement matters.
  • Every child has a different developmental pace. Comparison can cause unnecessary stress for you and your child.
  • Connect with parents who are facing the same issues, or ones who already dealt with such situations. This will help you to stay motivated.
  • Do a thorough research about which doctor, or therapist to consult too. Find what is best.
Effective Speech Therapies for Home
  • Model Correct Speech
  • Encourage Speech Through Play
  • Read out loud
  • Use Visual Aids

It is necessary for parents to take professional help and themselves also be involved for quick response and reward.

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